Why does this keep happening to me? Why am I repeating patterns?
I can never forgive her! How she promised she would be with me till the last day of life and how she left me.
I can never love my husband the way I have loved my partner in the previous relationship.
After 20 years of marriage, she was saying that I can never forget how I was being tortured when we were living with his family. How long did you live with them? 1 year!
I can never forget that time.
I cannot help this person, even if I want to. When I needed him most, he turned his back on me.
When I was 16, my boyfriend cheated on me. At 35, I am unable to accept any man. I feel everyone would just cheat.
WE have so many incidents that have hurt us in the past. They are still hurting us. For our mind, they are still in the present as we have been repeating them always. They hurt us even after years.
What do we need to?
First of all, we need to know whatever we are doing, we are doing for self rather than for someone else. If we need to forgive, we need to forgive for self, so that we can set ourselves free. We do not need to hold on to past thinking if the other person deserves it. Why something happened, what did it bring, did I do something bad, we can never calculate it all. So let God decide.
So the best way, let it go. take a decision to let it go. Let God handle. Who are we to decide who was wrong and who is right. Who are we to decide how a person shall be punished.
Take a decision, create a peaceful life. Let go, let God.
