She was crying. She felt that everyone was after her. Everyone behaved very badly with her or people avoided her totally. She wondered why? So while talking and observing for few days, all she was doing was talking what everyone was lacking or what kind of mistakes everyone had done. So I asked, whats good about these people and everyone who was around her. She was unable to find any.
I asked her, how would she treat someone, who is finding what’s negative in her? She smiled and said that how would they know? That I have looked for worst in them? Exactly that is the point. This is energy. Everyone can sense energy. People can feel what you are feeling for them. So if you are feeling positive, they would feel positive about you. If you are feeling negative, they would feel negative for you as this is what they are receiving from you.
So she started working on her thought process. She purposefully started finding positive things in others and what good they were doing. It was surprising to her that how much good she found and how she could feel pleasantness in her life. But this turn around took few months.
Yes, this is what we all have to do. It is not about how others are. It is about how we think.
