Met a gentleman, who is a self made businessman and a successful one. At the age of 35, he has it all. So I asked him, how he managed that and he smiled. He said that you have to work hard for anything and I have worked hard too. But then there is an age old question, so many people work hard but they do not become so successful. So is it karma or destiny or what?
He said I do not know. But 15 years back, when my uncle kicked me and father out of his business, after crying out and staying I depressed, I realized that was not helping anyone. So I sat and thought what would I want and what should I do which could help us. Then I felt like something was kicking inside me and I felt I should know, what do I want, so that I could be taken there. 15 years back, in that moment I got the clarity and I know what I wanted. Then I became that in my mind then and there only! After that I have learned that whatever I need in life, I need to have that in my mind first and then start working on it. Thinking like how it would be or what if it may not work out etc, never helps. You need to have that and be that before even you start that!
Well said!
Human mind thinks in images. Whatever images we see, they manifest in our lives. So if these images are our fears, our fears start manifesting. So we need to have the clarity of what we want and be that.
So how do we do that?
Step 1. Have a clarity of what do you want
Step 2. Why do you want it? IS it a negative motivation like revenge or guilt, anger or fear or some positive motivation like desire and ambition or love. Negative one will always take you down.
Step 3. See that in mind already done rather than what if its not done. Feel that how it would be when done. Get a clear image.
Step 4. Focus.
Step 5. Work on it everyday in mind and life.
Have all what you want. Have a happy life.
