She hated herself. Though she looked self obsessed and everyone thought she loved herself a lot but no! She did not like herself. To like herself a lot, she pointed out mistakes in others. So others also did not like her much. It was a vicious circle. She had constant problems like stomach ache, head ache etc. She wanted to heal herself.
I asked her, do you like yourself? The honest answer was no. When you say mean things to others, how can you like yourself. I asked her, when do you like yourself? When do you want to tell something good? Can you tell others when you have said mean things? She shared that whenever I have done something good for others or for self, I have liked myself. I have always wanted to share those things. Then stop doing and saying mean things. Now, our mind has to speak. So start speaking good things. Start saying good things to yourself first. So she started telling good things and expressed love for herself. She felt good. Good things started coming out for others too. It was a natural process. Her head aches and other problems started reducing. She wondered if it was her thought process and yes it was. People around her also were feeling better.
Do not criticize yourself within yourself. We do not have to be perfect in comparison with everyone else around. We just have to be loving and kind. When we start loving more, healing happens automatically.
Love yourself. Heal yourself. Heal the world with your love.
