Once during a workshop, a girl asked, why does it happen that we are doing something to please others and we get so many hurdles. We wonder why did we have to do that?
Can you be more specific?
So she shared that once her mother wanted to take her to her mothers friends home for some small gathering. She did not want to go but to please her mother she went there. But so many problems happened. She feel flat on face, injured her neck and while coming back, their car had a flat tyre and they had to manage many things for that.
So you did not want to go?
YES!
And in your mind did you calculate many reasons for not to go or excuses which you could give to your mother?
YES! Like I have a test tomorrow. I have a head ache. I do not like your friend. Take someone else.
That’s why all the problems happened. Our life is created by us. Whatever we think in mind starts happening for us. But what we do not realize is how it is happening for us. You did not want to go. In your mind you were creating reasons for not to go. So your mind created a course of action which was telling you not to go. But you had to go. So you created friction in your mind and you manifested friction.
So what is the solution?
Whenever you are doing something, do it happily and with love. Keep your mind pleasant to have a pleasant experience. When you do something with love and happiness, you will get happy results as this is the energy which is creating it.
