We do not get a perfect life. We have to create one and recreate one and keep recreating till the time we feel we got it.

I went to meet my aunt and there she had made a perfect Dokhla for snacks. It was melting in our mouths and I asked her how does she make it. She gave me the recipie. But when I tried, it did not come out well. I called her up and she said, you see, you have to try it few times and then you will get the perfect output yourself. I did after few times. But I learned few things:

If someone else has a recipe for something, still you have to work hard to get yours. Life is same. Even if we follow someone else footsteps, we have to try for ourselves to create a perfect life for self.

We can never have perfect output in first go! We need to make efforts and keep trying.

After few hit and trials, we would get if we do not give up.

No one gets a perfect life. We get few ingredients and from those ingredients we need to make a few hit and trials and then we would get a life we would finally want.

So stop complaining. For every phase of life, start experimenting with enthusiasm that you are trying something new and then create your life. Keep creating until you feel you got it. And then after sometime, you will again have to start. But then the learning would have more experience of the flame and burner and you will be a pro. But we need to. Be happy and grateful to have this opportunity to create life of yours. Stop complaining that you did not get a perfect life.