One gentleman had a bad relationship
with his mother. She was a very busy lady so she could not give him enough time
and because of that he always felt deprived of love. He grew up with servants
and always felt that working women should not get married. He always misbehaved
with his mother till the time she died. He had an argument with her on her last
day too. He was leaving for another country and after he landed there he got to
know that his mother passed away. He could not get immediate tickets back home
and she was cremated without his presence. It jolted him badly and he went into
emotional guilt. As he started slipping into guilt, his professional life also
started getting blocked. He lost his job, started business and it failed too.
It kept on going down for seven years and finally he decided to take
professional help to deal with his emotions. He started resolving his emotions
and after one year he felt lighter. As he started resolving his emotions, his
finances also started improving. In another incident one gentleman when got
blessed with his first baby, he started saying that his daughter is very lucky
for him. After she was born, he won new contracts and few of the stuck projects
started moving. He started saying it to everyone that their work also would
start moving as his daughter is there now. But it did not affect other’s lives
much. He was a very happy person and the joy in his heart had the capacity to
unblock many things in his life.
with his mother. She was a very busy lady so she could not give him enough time
and because of that he always felt deprived of love. He grew up with servants
and always felt that working women should not get married. He always misbehaved
with his mother till the time she died. He had an argument with her on her last
day too. He was leaving for another country and after he landed there he got to
know that his mother passed away. He could not get immediate tickets back home
and she was cremated without his presence. It jolted him badly and he went into
emotional guilt. As he started slipping into guilt, his professional life also
started getting blocked. He lost his job, started business and it failed too.
It kept on going down for seven years and finally he decided to take
professional help to deal with his emotions. He started resolving his emotions
and after one year he felt lighter. As he started resolving his emotions, his
finances also started improving. In another incident one gentleman when got
blessed with his first baby, he started saying that his daughter is very lucky
for him. After she was born, he won new contracts and few of the stuck projects
started moving. He started saying it to everyone that their work also would
start moving as his daughter is there now. But it did not affect other’s lives
much. He was a very happy person and the joy in his heart had the capacity to
unblock many things in his life.
Often we are told that the flow of
money in one’s life depends on karma, destiny and many things which we feel we
have no control over. Everything might be playing a role but amidst all this,
we overlook the part which is under our control. Because we have no control
over few factors, we give up our control over the things which we can control.
Yes, we do have a control over emotions and the feelings which we have. Any
negative thought, any negative feeling will go and block our channels. Deeper
are the emotions, deeper would be the impact. We have also heard of a small
adage that happy goes lucky and it truly explains what we are trying to
understand here. A happy person and his emotion of joy will have the tendency to
get lucky because he is not holding the emotions which would block his channels.
State of joy is our true state and everything positive happens in the state of
joy. However, due to our daily stress and life situations, we live in any state
but a state of joy. To be in state of joy, we need to retrain our mind, so that
we can live in state of joy. Another thing which we need to understand here is,
if we go by Hindu Mythology and treat Money as Goddess Laxmi, why would a
Goddess like to come to an unhappy place? Would we like to go to an unhappy
place? If we would not like to goto a place, where we only see arguments and stress
and we would like to go where we can feel peace and happiness, even Goddess
would like to go to a place which is a happy abode. So higher is the state of
joy, higher would be the flow of money. So how we can maintain that state of
joy, irrespective of what we have around us?
money in one’s life depends on karma, destiny and many things which we feel we
have no control over. Everything might be playing a role but amidst all this,
we overlook the part which is under our control. Because we have no control
over few factors, we give up our control over the things which we can control.
Yes, we do have a control over emotions and the feelings which we have. Any
negative thought, any negative feeling will go and block our channels. Deeper
are the emotions, deeper would be the impact. We have also heard of a small
adage that happy goes lucky and it truly explains what we are trying to
understand here. A happy person and his emotion of joy will have the tendency to
get lucky because he is not holding the emotions which would block his channels.
State of joy is our true state and everything positive happens in the state of
joy. However, due to our daily stress and life situations, we live in any state
but a state of joy. To be in state of joy, we need to retrain our mind, so that
we can live in state of joy. Another thing which we need to understand here is,
if we go by Hindu Mythology and treat Money as Goddess Laxmi, why would a
Goddess like to come to an unhappy place? Would we like to go to an unhappy
place? If we would not like to goto a place, where we only see arguments and stress
and we would like to go where we can feel peace and happiness, even Goddess
would like to go to a place which is a happy abode. So higher is the state of
joy, higher would be the flow of money. So how we can maintain that state of
joy, irrespective of what we have around us?
First of all we need to spend time with
self and analyse own thoughts. We need to understand, what is bothering us and
why it is bothering us. After spending some time with own thoughts we would
realize there are so many things which do not matter at all. Once we realize
that, we would be able to release many thoughts which have been occupying space
in our mind. Once a lady who was married to a financially sound man and had two
sweet healthy children was shouting at her servants that I have too much stress
in my life and I cannot spend my energy on servants all the time. When she was
questioned about what stress she has, she was shocked and accepted that she had
no reason to feel stressed about. She was blessed with money, good health and a
happy family. She accepted that very few in this world would be blessed like
her. More and more she started realizing this, happier she became. Often we
hold stress for no reason or for the things which have no value. When we start
thinking deeply we are able to release that stress. So it is very important to
start spending time with self and keep working on own thoughts.
self and analyse own thoughts. We need to understand, what is bothering us and
why it is bothering us. After spending some time with own thoughts we would
realize there are so many things which do not matter at all. Once we realize
that, we would be able to release many thoughts which have been occupying space
in our mind. Once a lady who was married to a financially sound man and had two
sweet healthy children was shouting at her servants that I have too much stress
in my life and I cannot spend my energy on servants all the time. When she was
questioned about what stress she has, she was shocked and accepted that she had
no reason to feel stressed about. She was blessed with money, good health and a
happy family. She accepted that very few in this world would be blessed like
her. More and more she started realizing this, happier she became. Often we
hold stress for no reason or for the things which have no value. When we start
thinking deeply we are able to release that stress. So it is very important to
start spending time with self and keep working on own thoughts.
Another very important thing we need to
do is to keep feeding our mind with positive thoughts. We can make a special
effort for the same like spending time with children, reading positive quotes
and books, entertaining self and respecting self for who we are. We need to
refuse to think negative. If a negative situation is happening, it becomes our
prime responsibility to keep the mind positive because the negativity would
impact our lives only.
do is to keep feeding our mind with positive thoughts. We can make a special
effort for the same like spending time with children, reading positive quotes
and books, entertaining self and respecting self for who we are. We need to
refuse to think negative. If a negative situation is happening, it becomes our
prime responsibility to keep the mind positive because the negativity would
impact our lives only.
Moreover, we can start connecting with
the nature. More and more we connect with the five elements of nature, more and
more we would always be healed. Whenever two energies come in touch with each
other, they try to create a balance. Now, nature’s energy will not come down,
so our energy starts rising, which would heal our physical, mental and
emotional health. A healthy person is always happier than an unhappy person. So
we need to stay close to nature. We can go for fresh air in the morning,
connect with Earth, take a bath in ocean if possible and we can connect in
various ways.
the nature. More and more we connect with the five elements of nature, more and
more we would always be healed. Whenever two energies come in touch with each
other, they try to create a balance. Now, nature’s energy will not come down,
so our energy starts rising, which would heal our physical, mental and
emotional health. A healthy person is always happier than an unhappy person. So
we need to stay close to nature. We can go for fresh air in the morning,
connect with Earth, take a bath in ocean if possible and we can connect in
various ways.
An emotionally healthy and happy person
would always create better money flow in his life.
would always create better money flow in his life.
