When she came, she counted many diseases she was suffering. Some bouts of sinus, thyroid, depression, insomnia. She was crying saying, I was such a healthy and vibrant person but my in-laws made me such a negative person. I feel like a dead body walking. I am suffering from so many diseases. she explained few incidences which had happened during the first year of her marriage (Which generally all daughter in laws have to go through when they get married into a joint family and they live with them). People acceptance is very low in our society. We believe in finding faults more than giving love. When someone is a target of many people constantly, the person is going to get demotivated and demoralized. Which eventually will become pile negativity against everyone. So she was suffering. But hey! For how long have you been married? Everything you are talking about is about the first year. She said that she had been married for 30 years. They lived together only for the first year but after that, they got separated. Since then she has been living on her own. So she was nurturing her anger since then? I asked her the reason and she said with a lot of
All the time for 30 years, you have spent thinking how others can suffer, how bad they are and you have become a pile of diseases. All the time she was on medicines. And then she was blaming others for her situation? All the negativity was in her mind not in her environment because for last 29 years, she was living only with her husband and daughters. In fact, everyone was suffering around her. She would give what she had. So if she had this kind of anger inside her, this is what she gave to everyone around her. She was suffering because of her own thought processes.
Then what about Karma? Your thought process is your Karma. It is planting the seeds for your life. Everytime, when we are thinking negative, we are sending a negative message to own body and cells. THe cells are reacting, mutating with those messages. A negative message will never create a positive impact. So every negative message is creating that negativity in the body which is coming out in the form of various diseases. So it’s not others who are harming us, it’s our own thought process. It is like, the ship cannot drown, until the water comes inside it.
Stay positive, stay happy. Stay healthy. To punish others is not your job. Your job is to create something better everyday.
