Went out with family and it was a family spot. So saw so many other families. There was a family which was kind of center of attraction for everyone. Two beautiful boys playing around, loving plants and each other. They were putting food in each other’s mouth. Waving at every new person. They were also hugging their parents again and again. They were playful, cheerful, lifting everyone’s spirit. their mother was sitting very peacefully watching them. So I asked her, your children never fight and she said they do. But they look very loving. Yes they are. All children fight but they don’t fight much. They love each other more. So the next question was, how are you raising such beautiful children? She said that because they don’t fight. Her husband intervened that we are raising them with so much love and we also share so much love between us that our children are the messengers of love. They give love to everyone they meet.
I felt so good and peaceful myself seeing those children, that family. it was so beautiful.
If you want your children to not fight, stop fighting yourself.
When they are irritated, give them more love rather than shouting at them. (There is always a reason behind their irritation)
Of course wrong things are not acceptable. Try to understand them as an individual.
Give them the respect of an individual rather than treating them like small creatures.
Talk to them more and more. They also will lean to express.
Spend time with them more and more. They need you more than anything or any support.
Involve them in activities and do those activities along. Involve them in decisions, don’t say you are small, you have no say. It will hurt their self respect. Give them that respect.
Show them how good they are and they can be and how to be good.
Be loving yourself.
Keep your patience.
Happy parenting!
