He was so troubled. he had a big business and a family. But He never smiled. I asked him, why have you come here? So when he came for help, he kept sitting silently. i asked him, what do you want? He said I do not know. Why have you come here and he said that he felt like. So how can I help you? His friend said that he is never happy. Can you please help him? Now, that was tough. So why he is not speaking?
The other gentleman did not say anything. So I asked him, why you have been doing what you have been doing and still there was no answer. So why did you get married or why did you make a business? He said that he did everything as a part of process of his life. And now, when everything was in place, he wondered what he could do. So I asked him, what would make you happy? He did not know. Now, let’s reverse the question. What will make you unhappy?
He thought for a while and said that if he would not get his morning tea, if his wife would argue, if his son would not behave, if his employees would not deliver right order at right time and many things like that. It means these things are giving you happiness. So have you acknowledged them? Have you told your wife how important it is to have this morning tea? And to your employees and son? And the answer was no.
See whatever we do, we do is to be happy which we do not realize. Your son is also practicing good conduct for your happiness and in-turn hoping it will be happy. But when he does not receive any, he gets frustrated and thinks that nothing pleases you. So he stops behaving> Same is with everyone. But the problem is you never acknowledged your happiness. If you start doing that, you would see the change. And after this start doing things which are making you happy.
He realized this and started doing little more things which would make him happy and when he was happy, people around him also were relaxed and happier.
Do things which make you happy and your happiness will improve many things around you.
