One gentleman shared that he had a very negative thought process. For everything he always calculates the worst. As per him he was very protective of everything around him. But what I felt was limiting him in life. He could never take a risk in business. He could never send his children to study to another city. He always lived a life in a small house despite of having good income. The questions were always…what if. What if children get spoiled when they are far. What if he would not be able to pay home loan. What if the risk he would take in business would create a loss. His wife had her own business when she got married. After 20 years of married life, he infused her also with something similar. What if the clients would not pay on time. What if they would complaint. What if she would incur losses. What if they would become poor in life.
So here is the thing:
Our thoughts become our reality.
We get the answer to the questions we ask for. These answers come in terms of life events and people.
So if we are thinking lot of negative questions, we are going to get answers in the form of negative events in life. Like what if I lose? Then you would lose and you would know, this is what would happen. Another thing, Universe is not judging positive or negative. It is just magnifying, amplifying our thoughts. Positive and negative is our prerogative. Whatever signals or energy we are sending, we receiving that back mani folds. So if it’s the limitation and fear then we are going to receive same. Which means more events which would create fear.
So what shall we do?
Tell yourself good things, good side of past experiences. See examples of success rather than failures. Affirm yourself positive statements.
Stay positive and you will be able to create better life.
