They were living in USA and shifted to India after few years. When they shifted they had a daughter and a son. They shifted back to their ancestral home with a big family back home. Initially, everything was fine and happy but gradually those adjustment issues of a big family started. The lady loved her children but she was always stressed. As she did not have any control over anyone else, she would take out all her frustration on children. She felt and thought she loved them (which she did) but what she gave was scoldings and harshness. When they grew up, they were against her and she wondered why?
Parents love their children. They love them most. If they have to give their blood and soul served on a plate to them, they would not mind. Every day, they do that in various forms. But they have their lives which they are dealing with. They have their own financial matters, struggles, daily chores and many things running in their minds all the time. They end up giving away those things to the softer part of their lives which is kids or family. It’s not fair to kids but it’s not fair to anyone else too. The person who is doing so much for everyone is suffering internally and that’s why everyone else receives that.
Few things:
Can we help them in feeling better?
Second thing, can they process less toxic thoughts in their mind? Can they stay more positive things? Can they create a more positive life?
Can we help them in becoming more aware?
Give love and be love, so that we all can start sharing more and more love. Hear them out, do not judge their thoughts, just be there. Your loving presence would be enough. And everyone else, just be more aware.
