One lady went into depression after having lots of aggression. People started staying away from her, she was on the verge of divorce. Everyone wondered what’s her reason for such a situation. She was married for 5 years, her husband was heading a multinational company, had two children who were studying in a good school. So everyone wondered what’s happening to her? Everything was so perfect for her. When I spoke to her, she shared that she was doing so much for everyone and still she felt no one appreciated her. She felt a lack of appreciation and acknowledgement. I asked her why was she doing what she was doing? She accepted that her friend’s husband appreciates her a lot for everything she does and her husband does not. So she was doing all this to tell her friend or for appreciation or for the family? She realized she was doing all that to show her friend that she could do better than her. So she was doing to show down someone. Now, this is how Universe works. There is no difference between you and me. So what you are thinking for others, you create for yourself. So somewhere she was feeling that she was going down. Were these her best intentions? NO!
So when she realized this, she changed the things. She started doing things thinking what best she could do, how she could take care of her family, how she could love them more. Now, the way she was looking at things changed. It was more loving rather than full of aggression. Slowly, she started receiving the appreciation too. She wondered when she was doing for appreciation, she did not get, when she did for love, she got all the appreciation.
Do not worry what others are thinking or what the result will be. Worry about what you are thinking and why you are doing what you are doing. If it’s loving, if it’s positive, the result will be all good. If it’s not then you will have things back as per your intentions. So always start with love, think with love and then do things. You cannot control what others think, because everyone would do as per own intentions and thought process. But you can do as per your intentions.
