One gentleman asked how to be better every day?
I asked him the need. I just wanted to understand his motivation behind this. Or let’s say, from where was it coming?
He said, just want to know for the self-improvement, which was kind of unacceptable from him. So I asked further. He accepted and said he had troubled many people and one day his own son, whom he loves most came back troubled and cried. So he realized how much hurt he must have caused to many people and to their parents and families. Yes, he must have. How many people must have cursed him and how much must have come around. Maybe it was his own Karma, which was coming back on his son, which scared him.
I asked him further, why did you trouble? He confessed that it was just for fun always. He never gave any thought to it.
So start thinking and think better! He said that thinking is scaring him. He did not want to think. So it’s simple. Do not think. Just help where ever you can. Do not think that whom you helping whether its a friend or an enemy. Do not think if the person deserves your help or not. Do not think that if it would be paid back. Do not think that what you are getting in return. just help where ever you can and whatever you can. He came back after one month and he looked much happier and peaceful. I asked him that what was making him happier this time. He said that after helping without thinking, he realized whatever he was doing it was for himself. When he was making fun also, it was for himself as he was enjoying. Now also, he was doing for himself and that was giving him an opportunity to be better. He felt he was of use rather than troubling others.
Everything is done for self. So if you really want to bring change in own life and within self, start doing things for others unconditionally. It’s for you, not for someone else.
