Call it Karma or what goes around that comes around or call it we all are one. Yes, we are a part of one Universe and we all are connected. There is one God inside us making us all one. There is no difference between who we are and God. So we are present in each other. This ego is keeping us separate. If we are no different from each other than giving pain to someone else is like giving the pain to own self. That’s why what goes around comes around.
So what kind of pain we can give…
Oh many and many. Physical, mental, emotional. For example, when we physically hurt someone. Or we emotionally cheat someone. Mental pain could be like sometimes, we pass on comments which can break someone’s confidence.
But the question is, sometimes pain is inevitable. So are we creating bad in situations like these? Like a mother scolding a child for doing something really bad. A mother might slap also. Sometimes, people do something which is not approved by others and they feel an emotional agony. What can we do in such situations?
There are few simple rules.
1. It shall not be intentional. Despite scolding and slapping her child a mother is always respected and loved. The reason is her intentions are very pure. Similarly, a son decides to open his business rather than joining his father’s and a father is feeling hurt. In such a scenario, the intention is not to hurt father but it is to create something. So the things would get resolved soon.
2. Never be happy in someone else’s pain. For example, someone is suffering in any way and you feel yes! He deserved it or become judgemental. I remember, once a movie star died and everyone was encashing on the news and printing every kind of nuisance. I am sure, what kind of pain the family must have gone through reading such things.
3. never fill up yourself with the feeling of revenge or to destroy someone else. You are creating your own doom.
Always try to help people in dealing with their pain. have compassion, have empathy. It is not for someone else, it is for yourself. be better, be kind, be loving.
