Sometimes, you are looking for something and it’s right there. The most simplest thing which has been told to us again and again and yet so hard to follow. Speak with love. In our mind we do so many calculations and get troubled. We do so many conversations in mind which actually never happen. We question and answer and we invoke all the emotions and we get stressed. How can we solve this? Why are we so worried? Because it invokes so many negative emotions in us.
Now, let’s take a simple pledge. Answer that in your mind with love. Does not matter how bad the other person is. Answer that with love. No one can fight love. people can fight anger but they cannot fight love. First start answering it with love in your mind and you will feel the immediate relief. You will suddenly see the release of emotions like high tides have settled down. You will realise that you were having a conversation in mind, which was futile and it was stressing you up. Once you make a decision to speak with love, all the anger which you have been trying to avoid dissipates. After that your fear of other person feeling bad, conversation going out of hand would go. Now, in reality if the conversation ever happens, that would be smooth if you actually can speak with love. You would not have to worry about how it would go, how it would end, if there is any conflict to avoid, if the other person would feel bad or if you would feel bad etc. All you have to do is focus on speaking with love.
We do not realise, our focus on love can solve almost everything in life. Focus on love, speak with love and answer back with love. Mind will be peaceful and you will be happier. You will heal yourself, you will heal this world and your relationships.