Few days back a gentleman came
who was going through some financial problems. He had been going through
financial problems for last 20 years. It was difficult for him to smile even
when it was one of his best moments. His son got admission in IIT Engineering College
but he could only smile and then he was more worried about paying the fee. His wife
got a promotion in office and he thought that now she would have to give more
time in office. Someone sent him a greeting card on his birthday and he said
that what do I do with this card! His attitude towards life was becoming very
negative. For everything he had a bad reason. Even for best of the things he
could not be happy. Now, his this attitude towards life definitely cannot
improve his situation. He got frustrated in his life completely and one day
when everyone was asleep, he left home. He wrote a letter to his wife that he
would be back when he would be fine. He did not worry about his family as he felt
that she was earning. But she was earning does not mean she did not need him.
He had started evaluating everything in his life from money’s perspective. So
he thought his family also needs him only for money. But in reality, family is
not for this. Family is with you in your good and bad. They hold your hand when
you are drowning and they laugh with you when you are happy. They hug you when
you need the warmth. They may shout at you, have clashes with you but really
family always comes around. His family also loved him dearly, which he did not
realize. Everything happens for a good
reason. What looks bad might be for good in longer run. He went to an ashram so
that he could get free lodging and food. There he started doing support work to
help people. After few days, he started relieving his financial worries and he
started observing himself more. He realized, how much negative he had become
all this while and how he had started treating everyone. Everyone loved him so
much but he kept rejecting their love because he could not accept himself. He started
feeling grateful for what all he had. After two months, when he could feel
lighter and no longer felt frustrated, he came back. He saw everyone waiting for
him and he was more ready to handle situation. Sometimes, it is important to
step out of the situation to understand the situation correctly. He felt better
and happier and started feeling grateful for everything he had. He was into business
and was unable to work through his finances. When he was able to release his
internal blockages, he could understand his business more. His business
improved and finances too. But after sometimes, he started facing family
problems. This time, he realized, that problems keep happening but we need to
deal with them patiently. We cannot solve all the problems forever. This
Universe would have one or other problems but we need to have an attitude to
handle everything. This time the problem did not frustrate him and he was still
grateful for his life.
who was going through some financial problems. He had been going through
financial problems for last 20 years. It was difficult for him to smile even
when it was one of his best moments. His son got admission in IIT Engineering College
but he could only smile and then he was more worried about paying the fee. His wife
got a promotion in office and he thought that now she would have to give more
time in office. Someone sent him a greeting card on his birthday and he said
that what do I do with this card! His attitude towards life was becoming very
negative. For everything he had a bad reason. Even for best of the things he
could not be happy. Now, his this attitude towards life definitely cannot
improve his situation. He got frustrated in his life completely and one day
when everyone was asleep, he left home. He wrote a letter to his wife that he
would be back when he would be fine. He did not worry about his family as he felt
that she was earning. But she was earning does not mean she did not need him.
He had started evaluating everything in his life from money’s perspective. So
he thought his family also needs him only for money. But in reality, family is
not for this. Family is with you in your good and bad. They hold your hand when
you are drowning and they laugh with you when you are happy. They hug you when
you need the warmth. They may shout at you, have clashes with you but really
family always comes around. His family also loved him dearly, which he did not
realize. Everything happens for a good
reason. What looks bad might be for good in longer run. He went to an ashram so
that he could get free lodging and food. There he started doing support work to
help people. After few days, he started relieving his financial worries and he
started observing himself more. He realized, how much negative he had become
all this while and how he had started treating everyone. Everyone loved him so
much but he kept rejecting their love because he could not accept himself. He started
feeling grateful for what all he had. After two months, when he could feel
lighter and no longer felt frustrated, he came back. He saw everyone waiting for
him and he was more ready to handle situation. Sometimes, it is important to
step out of the situation to understand the situation correctly. He felt better
and happier and started feeling grateful for everything he had. He was into business
and was unable to work through his finances. When he was able to release his
internal blockages, he could understand his business more. His business
improved and finances too. But after sometimes, he started facing family
problems. This time, he realized, that problems keep happening but we need to
deal with them patiently. We cannot solve all the problems forever. This
Universe would have one or other problems but we need to have an attitude to
handle everything. This time the problem did not frustrate him and he was still
grateful for his life.
We all face challenges at one or
other point of time and they would keep coming. We are here to learn from those
challenges and everyone has own challenges. But if life would have challenges,
it would have more gifts than challenges. If we learn to accept those gifts and
be grateful for them, it becomes easy for us to deal with the challenges.
Because in those gifts we find strength to overcome those challenges. And we
would get one challenge after another that is how things are designed. So instead
of feeling bad about the problems, if we start feeling happy about the gifts we
would find the beauty of life. It would help us in being happier and better. It
would give us more strength and would give us more positive attitude.
other point of time and they would keep coming. We are here to learn from those
challenges and everyone has own challenges. But if life would have challenges,
it would have more gifts than challenges. If we learn to accept those gifts and
be grateful for them, it becomes easy for us to deal with the challenges.
Because in those gifts we find strength to overcome those challenges. And we
would get one challenge after another that is how things are designed. So instead
of feeling bad about the problems, if we start feeling happy about the gifts we
would find the beauty of life. It would help us in being happier and better. It
would give us more strength and would give us more positive attitude.
