Most of us want to have a happy, romantic, passionate relationship. Thanks to some movies also, who have gives us relationship goals. But when it comes to doing something, it is last in the list or sometimes its not even there in the list. We take it for granted and we assume that everything would just happen. When it comes to doing we have very nice excuses like it’s not in me, these things look good in movies, what would others think of me, How can I do, I would be called as henpecked, many mny things we can hear.
But we need to know, whatever type of relation we would desire we would create that if we focus on that. However, we need to focus on that!
So let’s see what shall we focus
To have respect for each other
To have happiness
Relationship which gives us strength
Relationship which has honesty
Relationship which has lots of love
Often we have some weird definitions of a partner depending on what we had dreamed about and because of that we are unable to accept what’s there . But we must look at what’s there. Qualities of the partner.
Having a happy and loving relationship is a blessing but it’s not gifted. We need to create it together. It’s like someone is having a very nice palatial home and it’s nice to see and live in there. But did it happen on it’s own. Someone had to make lot of efforts, time and yes lot’s of investment to build one. Similarly, to have a grand relationship, we need to put in everything.
Another thing, I have seen is we have everything in our list. Work, domestic chores, kids, their school and growth, relatives etc but we forget each other. We need to remember each other and we need to put each other in the list. The position might shift depending on the need but it shall never be out of list.
