One gentleman said that he has done fairly well in business but he is always one step behind his targets. Even if he has extended his targets, he had been one step behind. I asked him, various option in which he would like to further extend his targets and whenever I tried asking, with one positive answer, he gave multiple negative reasons, why he could not achieve them. Which made me realize that his focus was so much on why he could not achieve and definitely it would block him from achieving what he wanted. Another gentleman who was a construction contractor, did not get enough work and that is why he was not earning enough. He was waiting at home for calls feeling frustrated and praying I hope someone calls. But feeling depressed would never help! Another lady who wanted to improve her relationship with her husband was so much focussed on why it was going bad. We desire lots of things in life but the problem is we think more of what we do not like in life. Now, whatever we focus upon grows stronger in life and if you keep thinking about what you do not want, that would persist. However, if you start thinking about what you want and more ways of getting that, may be you will think of yourself as dreamer at that time, would get you what you want. So this is what we did. We wrote exactly what we wanted in all the cases and then we wrote minimum 12 points around the feelings associated with what we wanted. We repeated everything again and again and we continued doing same. Within few days things changed and they started getting what they wanted. The focus on achieving the targets made that happen. Focus on the feeling of having more work brough in work. Focus on having good relationship improved the relationship.
Now, what changed? First of all our feelings associated with it changed. We are our feelings. If you are feeling good and someone asks you, how are you, you would say I am so good today. If you are not feeling good about something, you would say I am ok or I am not good. When we start focussing on our feelings of being good and how would we feel after reaching to desired state, our feelings change and we start feeling better. Better means first thing higher vibration. Now, second thing is, we manifest our awareness of who we are. So we reach to a state of what we wnat and feeling of we already have, we start manifesting same. Third thing is, we are the Universe and we have Universe inside us. That is why we have the power to influence everything around us. When we focus on what we want, we activate that part inside us and that part starts receiving our energy, which makes it stronger with every moment spent on it bringing it out to the reality. Same thing happens with what we do not want. So center yourself in what you want and surround it with what all you love with it and how you want to feel with it to achieve what you want. Focus more and more on same to see it happening!
You are the power and you have the power.
