We fight with our loved ones
We get hurt by our loved ones
People whom we do not love cannot hurt us.
We get hurt because we have certain expectations from our loved ones and when they are not met, we get hurt.
We hold back things on ego.
But we do not like that negativity against our loved ones.
So what shall we do?
We need to know when we are fighting…are we fighting to resolve or are we fighting to fight?
Often most of the fights become ego clash and we continue to fight for ego. We do not want to give up and we want to finish last. To prove that we were right. Often we end up saying things which we do not want to say. But we end up hurting each other more in this process.
Do we want thta?
No! I guess everyone wants to live in harmony with love with the loved ones.
So what shall we do?
Whatever is bothering you, just release a silent prayer, silent intention or with faith, GOd please solve it with love in highest interest of both of us.
Now, whether it will be business, personal or any kind of fight/argument/negativity, see it getting resolved in the best possible way. Amazing part is, with no residue left in hearts as it is solved with love and both will have win win situation.
Always argue to solve and to solve with love. After all, we want to live with love and we want to spread more love. We do not want the existing love to go deep into layers and let ego take over. We want love to take over everything.
So may everything gets solved with love today.
