She got married in a joint family. Her mother told her to keep quiet and be tolerant as this is a part of the process. She kept tolerating everything, everyone’s criticism and she always suppressed her anger. Not feeling angry is different but not expressing anger is different. So in a way she suppressed her anger and suppressing anger is like suppressing poison in your body. Few years of this and she started developing serious health issues. After ten years of marriage, there came a day when she was unable to walk one day. Her treatment started and she recovered a little bit but everything inside her had reached a limit, so on everything she would blast everyone. Now, everyone would say, these are old things, why are you angry on these things now. But is it so? For her they are never old as she was always talking to herself about those things. She could not let them go and how could she? She was in pain. Finally, with professional help, she decided to let go, not for others but for herself. HEr husband also started supporting her, realizing her pain. She decided to forgive. Within a year, she recovered and was all healthy. But now, she was a changed person. She was a happy person. Forgiveness helped her heal.
Another gentleman who was suffering from constant financial losses started suffering from severe back problems. He felt that he was over burdened in life. He was about to commit suicide. But one day, his wife told him that she was grateful to have him. He realized that statement itself became his pillar of strength. He realized her love that even after having so many problems, she was grateful for him. He started following same. He started becoming grateful for what all he had. Soon, his mental state improved. His mental state improved and his finances improved.
Whatever helps us in realizing love, will always help us in healing. Focus on love and everything will be fine. Focus on bringing in more love and things will be fine. Situation will heal, person will heal, relationship will heal, physical body will heal. Love heals all. Situation needs love and who brings it does not matter. Bring in love and everything will change. Love is the flow of this Universe. It will correct the flow, correct everything else.
