What is right and what is wrong?
We wait for others to say, you did good.
We wait for approval from others. More the merrier.
Even after doing our best, we do not feel confident enough.
We do not get approval for everything then. We get criticised for something a part of what we are doing.
It’s enough to discourage for next time what we have to do.
However, we need to know few things and accept them.
We can never have 100% approval from everyone for everything we are doing.
Human mind is not trained to appreciate. it is trained to criticise.
We can learn and train ourselves to see positive side of things but generally it is otherwise.
If we really want to do things, we have to start doing without approval.
So how to gauge what’s right and what’s wrong?
Well, the parameter is inside you, not outside you.
First know your intentions and actions. If your intentions were pure then you did right.
If your motivation was to gain others approval or to show down someone, it is not good.
If your motivation was the fear of criticism, then it was not from the right place.
Your intentions shall be pure and 100% pure nothing else.
After that maintain your focus on intentions and outcome you desire and gradually things will fall into place.
If you want to feel confident, then know that, human mind is full of ego and it does not let us see things in light. But if your intentions are pure then Universe is backing you up and eventually everything will fall into place. Do things because you want to do, not because others have to say things about it.
Start with love and complete with love and you will always be right. Not because you would want to be right as that is a kind of ego, but because that’s the right way.
