He was younger by 6 years. When he was born, he felt that everyone loved him a lot as he had become the centre of everyone’s world. But slowly, he started realizing that it was not enough for him. When they grew up, his brother was appreciated more for his giving nature, independence, being responsible and dependable etc. He started feeling jealous of his own brother who always took care of him. Like everyone was appreciating, the elder one was a very kind and good human being. His negative feelings were not taking him anywhere. They were taking him backwards only. More he was focused on what his brother has and he did not have, more everything was growing. His brother started his own business and he wanted to join in. The brother suggested to first do a job which also did not go down well. He joined his brother business after 3-4 years and did not perform well. He could not make any sale (He started heading marketing). After two years he slipped into depression.
He said that why the world was so unfair to him and I asked him what did you ask that you did not get? Your problem was not that you did not have. Your problem was why your brother had everything. Now, whatever you focus upon grows stronger in your life. As your focus was always on, what he had or why eh had, it kept growing which means further reason for you to feel lack. Your second focus was your feeling of lack, which also kept growing. So now, switch your focus to what you want to have and then you will see the change. Within one year, his life started changing. Earlier he could not do well in job as his focus was his brother’s business and he felt like being forced to do that job. But this time, his intentions were better so within one year, he was doingw ell in his job. His financial situation, health and everything else started improving.
So always remember, whatever you feel, Universe will magnify those feelings and will return them to you. Whatever you focus upon, will grow stronger in your life. When you are jealous, you create more reasons to be jealous, which means further lack in own life.
