One lady who just had a miscarriage contacted. She was full of anger for her husband. During her pregnancy, her husband would have arguments and they were living in a tensed environment. Now, after miscarriage, he was always blaming her, sometimes of the miscarriage also for everything. Her anger was justified but it would help none. She said that she wanted another child and to feel complete. I was worried because what soul would like to come in to such an environment? Either it has to be more aggressive soul or at least peaceful soul will not like to come. I asked her, what is your criterion? She wanted a happy child. But by being so aggressive yourself, how can you be happy? She realized this and then both started working together on working on themselves. They maintained a peaceful and loving environment at home. Let go off the lost one in energy. Also they forgave each other. She was holding onto the negative energy, where was the space for the new peaceful energy. Once they were peaceful, within one year, she conceived and delivered a healthy baby. She had to open her heart to love to get what she wanted.
Another gentleman who was full of frustration of life could not do well in job. His father died very early and he fulfilled all the responsibilities including getting his sister married. But he was always complaining that he had to do it, it was not his responsibility. he wondered, why in office also, he was always made to do others task too. Well, this is how he was thinking. He was filling up for lots of people, but still he was unable to rise. He did not get desired promotion, even after shifting jobs. Finally, when he started releasing his anger towards life, started opening his heart to love, seeing everything as a blessing rather than a curse, he was promoted soon.
Personal or professional, everything our heart desires comes to us. However, it depends on how much love we are giving and receiving. More we open upto love, more Universe opens upto us. More we are full of negativity, more we push away everything we desire. So how do we do that?
I always feel there are three things which open our heart to love. Gratitude, forgiveness and love itself.
