She was 30 years old and she was always helping others. I asked her, how she got this and she smiled. She said that this is who i am. This is what I have seen and this is what my mother has told me. I wanted to learn from her more about giving and her experiences.
She said that I do it because I can and I want to and I can do it with love. If I cannot do it with love and gratitude I shall not do it. If it is giving me peace, I shall do it or I shall not do it.
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Ask yourself why are you giving?
Because you wanted the other person to feel grateful (That’s what we expect)
Because you should give (That’s what we have been told)
To balance old Karma and to create new good Karma (That’s how we have been trained)
Because it will come back to you more (So you are greedy)
If you do not do it, you will invite bad karma (So there is a fear)
All of this is true, still why are you giving?
The only thing which can do good is the deed done with love and pure intention. If you are doing it with any other intention, it is of no help.
So give with love, give from heart. DO not use too much mind into what if, it is misused, what if they sell it off, what if they are making fool of you, if you want to give, simply give and you shall see how you feel.
Before any other change it will bring peace to you immediately that you were able to help, someone accepted your help, you are capable of helping, God chose to help through you
after that definitely everything comes in. Whatever you give comes back
Whatever you feel will be replicated but they all are the later consequences of what you are doing right now. What’s most important is, how you feel while giving.
So give from all your heart and love and you will feel that Universal love immediately. You love and you will be loved back immediately.
I knew what she was talking and I knew then what unconditional love and giving meant!
Thank you!