One lady called and was crying badly. i asked her what happened and she started saying few things like, my life is rotten, I am rotting, I will rot, this life is worse than death and many things. IS your health fine was my next question as she said that i am rotting. She said she was fine but then what was wrong? She said that she was fed of fights with her husband everyday. She feels she was not respected enough in her relationship. He did not do enough for her.
as everyone needs to be fed. He is never there for children, he is never there for her and he is always busy with his friends. So my next question was, does he have an affair and she said no. But he is never there. Whole night he is out drinking with his friends and that’s why he is not saving any money also, and then he would sleep whole day. Because of this, so many times he has been kicked out of the job that he has stopped working. Now, he is at home, she has to manage both both home and work.
After hearing out, I knew she was going through a very tough time. But thinking like this would never help. So I asked her, what would you do today to have a better tomorrow? Instead of feeling stuck in the situation? It is like when you are surrounded by the fire you can die screaming I am in the midst if a fire or you can think how you will come out or douse it it or how you will ask for help.
She thought, corrected her thought process, gradually picked up new course and got a better paying job. It gave her strength to get separated from her husband but like as he knew this, so he also started behaving better.
ASk yourself everyday
What can I do to make a better tomowrrow
for my health
For my home
for my life
for my family
for the money I have
for the relationships I have
For my inner growth
Ask yourself progressive questions rather than things which take you back in life. You will see your life changing very soon.
