With Twin toddlers toddling around, I do not get much time for cooking, so I hired a support for that. Though she is really good but we all have off days. So when the food turns out not so tasty, that day I always ask her, are you upset or worried. What is bothering you and she would apologize. I always say, do not be sorry, we all have such days and it is fine. If you want, you can share. And it has always been either her husband or son running in her mind. And if she is extra happy some day, the food turns out to be so sumptuous.
So many times, I have seen people working, doing the job and cursing same. They will wake up cursing their lives, their jobs, the work they are doing and the result is, they are impacting own lives. When we are working with negative thoughts in mind, we are not harming anyone else, we are harming self only.
If I have felt bad ever about someone and dealt with that person, I have always created conflicts in very the moment. So my first priority always becomes to keep myself loving for everyone I am dealing with.
So What do we have to do?
First of all we have to know, that it is a human nature to complain and crib and feel lesser and feel that we are not receiving just. Nothing comes as only as a negative task in life. So get down to writing. Take out a pen and paper and instead of seeing what’s negative, write down, what all you are getting. Write a thank you note for everything.
After that make a list of all the good things in life and get into gratitude mode.
After that, think of all the best things which have ever happened to you (Generally this list is longer than the bad things) and be happy. Take a stock of your life and you will be happy for that.
Write down good things about yourself and your own kind acts. Remind yourself of who you are, a kind person, better person, a happy person, carefree person and how strongly you have handled every phase of life. Be happy and then get to work.
Then bless everyone and everything.
If something is still bothering you, then practice forgiveness. After that be happy and then get to work. You will be amazed, how life turns out after that!
