A friend called up and he said that my life is so f**** up. I asked what happened and he said that he has a controlling wife. He has a job which sucks and he keeps travelling. Then he has to take care of kids also when he goes back home. He has a head ache or back ache most of the times. Now doctors are saying he is developing problems in liver also. It is so difficult for him to get up in the morning. He kept counting for one hour. Then after one month again he called up, but this time he was travelling for his company purpose, staying in a five star. So he started complaining about the less comfortable bed, taxi driver and hotel staff. He called up again after one month and he was complaining about his mother. He was living separately but when ever he visited her, she made food, which he was forced to eat but he did not like as it had too much oil and spices. So finally I asked him, do you think everything is bad and this whole world is out to make you suffer? Why do you have only complaints?
Why can’t you think that your wife is taking care of children alone when you are travelling for 20 days a month? Why can’t you think that your kids miss you so much that when you go back, they want to spend every minute with you. They can’t sit and talk, so they seek your assistance in their school work etc. Why can’t you think that your company is making you travel and stay in a five star 20 days a month? Why can’t you think that you could miss your mom and she is making an effort in this age for you. Regarding your body, yes it will keep going down if you will have such a negative perspective towards everything in life. Our life force is managed with our emotions. So if we have happy emotions then we increase our life force energy. If we have negativity, we keep sucking it.
Everything in life has two perspective. It depends on us how we want to see it. It is our looking glass, which makes this world a better or a worse place.
Friends, live your life with respect and love. You have this life and it will be same. Whether you curse it or accept it, life is yours and it will be yours only. You are not going to have someone else’s life. Take a decision to be happy in it rather than complaining. Add love to it.
