Her husband was hurt by her small innocent mistakes. While going to her son’s school, she dressed up nicely and on the way some labourers were looking at her. Her husband felt offended and said that she liked others men to look at her, that’s why she dresses up nicely. She was shocked and he harboured such thing for entire life saying I can never forgive you. In every fight he will bring all such things saying, he will never forgive her. But the main problem was he was getting hurt constantly from all this.
His wife humiliated him in front of whole family. They were filing for divorce but he said that he will take a revenge. Whenever she was with anyone else, he would follow her, reach there and create a scene. Eventually, he created a reputation like he is mad and he spent his whole time in following her, so that he could spoil her life. I wonder who was suffering more here?
In another scenario, one gentleman wanted to destroy his brother’s business out of jealousy. He always wondered why his brother’s business kept growing and why he was always hand to mouth.
Often people say that we shall look at practical angle instead of spiritual angel. But I wonder if there is actually a practical angel. In reality, practical angel is the angel of mind which we are thinking from a limited perspective. In reality it’s only spiritual angel which is working.
We need to understand:
1. We are no one to take revenge. What is happening here is happening for a reason. Sometimes, it’s future oriented, sometimes it’s karmic from past life and sometimes, there might be so many other reasons which we cannot figure out right now.
2. We cannot decide, how one’s karma come’s back. It is Universe who has to decide. There is no good deed which is not rewarded and no bad deed which is not punished.
3. Energy always plays it’s role.
4. Spirit is more powerful than all of us together.
5. What is inside us, is hurting us more rather than someone else. So we need to remove that or else it will keep hurting us and keep blocking our lives.
6. Practice forgiveness everyday. Let go everyday.
Tell yourself, I release all that which is not serving me positively. I forgive everyone and everything. I am free. i am love. i am divine.
