There are three important areas of our lives. The relationship, health and money. There is always a problem in one or other area. Often we wonder, how to fix all of them. But life has surprises for everyone always. One challenge gets solved and another one starts. So many times, people come and ask, how to get a perfect life partner for their children or for themselves. The hunt for a perfect life partner does not stop sometimes even in old age.
First of all, we need to know, if we have a partner, he is there with us for a reason. Whether it is a Karmic learning or any other reason. I haven’t met anyone yet, where there was no past connection to be with that partner. Sometimes, we meet someone for a short time and then another one and we may stay single for rest of the life. But still there is a key to be with someone who is as loving as our heart desires. Generally, we meet a partner, who will bring out the parts of us which need healing. They will trigger those points inside us again and again, till the time it is healed. So to get a loving partner, about whom we have always heard of, dreamed about, saw in movies, the only way is to heal yourself first. Become complete within yourself. Be as loving as you would want the whole world to be to yourself. Be the one you would want to spend your life with. Be yourself and then have that desire to have someone as you are. You do not need anyone to complete you. You just need someone who can be with you accepting you the way you are. But for that, you need to accept him the way he/she is. Do not desire for a perfect partner or perfect love. Desire for someone, who can be with you.
There is no perfect one but yes there is your perfect one. Do not desire with a feeling of lack like I am old, how can I have a good one. If you will have such a belief, then you will meet someone, who will remind you of same. If you have some problem like some physical ailment etc, still accept yourself as complete and you will meet someone, who would not even bother if you have some problem. Be happy, be complete, be loving and you will have the one, who is looking for same.
