One lady was going through lots of financial problems. She never shared with anyone. She felt that, how can she ask anyone for help. One day, her friend saw her overdue bills and was mad at her. Because in that situation even the interest was becoming another big due. Her friend told her that it’s a good thing that she does not want to use her friends but she should share atleast. She supported her younger sister in getting a job and things started becoming better. She also explained that it was no obligation because her sister got what she deserved and second thing there is no charity. She will be working and earning. However, her first thought was what if in future her friend would say, I had helped you? So what? She can say as she had helped and then express your gratitude rather than feeling bad for that.
One gentleman was on the verge of divorce as he always said to his wife that I do not need your love. She would express her care and he would say, I do not need it, I can take care of myself. Problems aggravated when she also started saying the same thing. If he would even pay to her for home expenses, she would say I do not need your money. Before relationship counselling, the gentleman had to go through personal counselling as he had to deal with his problem to receive.
We want things but we want in a way we are full of ego.
No one should help me.
I cannot ask anyone for help
Even if someone is doing something, we want to say, I did not ask for this, you are doing it.
We desire help but we do not like asking.
I can take care of myself.
I do not need anyone
I cannot say that everyone is like this, but many of us are like this. But many of us are. I wonder why we did not think of all this when we were babies. When we did not know how to eat and how to clean. Why we simply cried and assumed we will be helped. Why don’t we think that for Universe we are still that little baby and we just have to cry out honestly and everything will be taken care of? It will be but we need to open up to receive. Someone is always watching over us to help us. But it will not just drop from above. The universe will channelise that through someone. Through someone’s love, when we are crying for love, money through someone, when we need money, support when we need support and we shall open up the Universal love and abundance with love so that it can flow freely rather than blocking it with ego.
