One family contacted as they wanted help on their falling family situation everyday. Generally I have seen, people do grow and prosper with time. Very rarely people have a falling trend. Another pattern was, their situation was persistent. It was not a phase. It was becoming a part of their life style. They had to sell their house, then they kept shifting to smaller ones. Gradually, the car and furniture also had gone. Along with that they started having health issues which means more doctor bills. Sometimes they did not have enough food to eat also. Vary rarely we come across such situation. They also shared that they are trying to focus in a right way, trying to express gratitude and stay positive. Still nothing is improving.
Made me wonder. But then slowly they accepted that they had cheated their business partner and he committed suicide. With the burden of such a crime, how can we prosper? But then the big question was, if we are focusing in a right direction, then how can bad things happen? Now, the question is from me. If you eat all healthy food but you start slowly eating poison too, then do you still think your health will recover or it will fall? Looking at your situation is seems like, you have been giving healthy food to your mind but this act is like a poison. Which is killing you day by day.
How can we correct things?
1. By realizng own mistakes
2. By supporting his family and giving them their share
3. Doing service as much as you can
4. Seeking forgiveness
Still it will improve the situation or it will totally heal, I cannot say right now. But it should help.
Mind, mindfulness, positive thinking all helps. But I wonder if we have done such things and we are carrying such a burden on our hearts, how can we have positive thinking.
The only way to grow in life is have a vision, thinking good for self and others, doing service and then live.
