He wanted that others should appreciate him. Since his childhood he always felt that everyone had looked down at him. He was going through low self esteem and confidence issues. More he tried, more he was mocked at. Everything he did to gain others appreciation was taking him down further. he did not know what to do. Finally he seeked help because he felt that because of this, he could not grow in job too. He wanted to row in his professional life, but because he could never exuberate confidence. because of that, he was never appreciated and everyone took him for granted. He decided to do something. He realized just by sitting he would not be able to make any difference. Finally he read somewhere, be kind and uplifting. Initially he did not know what did it mean? Did it mean for others or for self. He decided finally he would implement for himself and others too. He made few rules:
He started talking about himself kindly and in a positive manner while he was talking in his mind (Earlier he had cursed himself a lot)
He started searching for points to appreciate in others and people who came to him always felt appreciated. they felt the positivity around him. He always made people positive about themselves. It was never a fake appreciation, it was always a genuine appreciation.
What he was giving, he started receiving. people also started appreciating him. Which helped him in boosting his confidence.
Because he felt he was not appreciated enough, he always tried pulling others down. He felt that, this way he would be proven better. But he was wrong. You can never rise higher by pulling others down. You can rise higher only when you start taking others up. He also started doing that. Very soon, people started seeking his help as he was ready to help.
He was kind to himself and used kind words for others including support workers like peon etc.
His changed approach and behavior helped and management also noticed. He was given a raise and a promotion he was looking for.
Whatever he did was genuine and there was no faking. generally people can sense and would know what is not real. We all emit the energy vibes and we all can sense vibes from others. lies would be sensed and truth would be sensed too.
So we all can make a genuine effort to be kind and uplifting! Help others, wherever you can. Help the poor. Help those who have lesser means than you. Help people from heart and you will see you would be rising in life. Thats the only way to rise in life, by being kind and uplifting.
