The couple had fights for last five years. Everytime it would spiral to a level that elders would have to intervene. They tried everything but could not stop them from fighting. They wondered what to do because from outside everything looked perfect. They both were doing everything they had asked them to do. No one was openly abusive or talking bad but if something triggered, it would bring the house down. Finally, when they seeked help the person realized that the couple was doing everything but hated each other. While doing anything for each other, they cursed badly. If she cooked food she cursed, its better if he dies after eating food. If he gave her money, he would silently curse the money saying, may she begs always and starves to death. Now, from outside it looked like she was giving him food and doing everything else, and he was providing for her but internally, it was just opposite.
So let’s understand how this works:
1. The impact of our actions is a combination of our feelings and physical actions. Where feelings hold the major share.
2. Whatever we are thinking is getting transmitted to the other person and transforming his energy. So if someone is feeding you with love, you would get love energy and you would start transforming into love. You would start feeling love. If someone is angry at you but is talking politely, we can immediately sense that the other person is angry. This sense comes from energy transmission which we are unaware of.
3. Negative actions + Positive feelings = Negative result
Positive actions+Negative feelings= Negative Results
Positive actions + Positive feelings= Positive results
4. So if we really want to have a positive result, we need to align our actions and feelings or else the results would always be damaging.
5. If we are doing things but internally we are resisting that, we would block and create problems externally as the conflict is in mind. So always be happy when you are doing something or else be prepared for more conflicts.
In the above case, the situation resolved when the gentleman after realizing his mistake, started blessing his wife, started praying for her. It healed the negativity and their relationship improved.
