What if I would fall sick..what if I would get a terminal disease?
Everyone would say that I have been so sad in this marriage
Would people support me if I won’t be able to do anything myself
What if I would lose money, so let me create a secure account
What if I meet an accident?
What if my partner turns out to be bad
1000 questions of what if which arise from fears.
We grow up with fears. We get an upbringing where we are taught fears. This society thrives on fears. I wonder why so! May be they also were taught like that. But there is another truth to it.
Somewhere in our mind we want to prove:
Others have been bad
Life has been bad
I have been suffering because of others
If something goes wrong I can blame others
I should be proved good and for that others should be proved bad
So many times I hear people saying then everyone would say he had been bad not me. But if we look at a bigger picture of that, in all such scenarios who is suffering? Even if others are proven bad, even if life is proven to be tough, we are suffering. We like to suffer! We hate to be in that place, but we attract sufferings and we like sufferings. We want others to suffer along and that is why where ever we sit we want to tell a story of how life has been bad and I had been suffering and I have been trying to fight back! But what’s the fun in that?
So what shall be done?
First of all we need to understand that whatever we are creating in mind, will happen eventually in life.
We need not to suffer to make others look bad. No one is gaining anything.
We need to focus on being happy and living a marvelous life.
If there has been a pain we need to work on releasing it rather than victimizing self.
So what shall we do?
Think what if you would have abundance’What if you would have love in relationships
What if you would have a healthy body all your life
What if you would have a great death
What if you would win
What if you would have a super successful career
What if you would make millions rather than going poor
Ask the question and you will get the answer. So ask only what you want to receive.
