She was born with a silver spoon. Always had money, servants, family to take her tantrums and love her back. At her home everything was designed as per her convenience. She thought this is how this world is. Everything is as per her. She got married, came to a new place. Now nothing was as per her. If she did not behave no one talked to her. Her husband tried cooperating but he wanted her to be as per him. She had everything but still all complaints. As per her everyone was wrong. One day her sister told her she was wrong and the reason was everyone cant be wrong. This made her think for nights and somewhere she prayed that God show me where I have been wrong. Uptil now she was thinking if they are not as per her they are wrong. She started realizing her mistakes. How she had been hurting everyone and how they still are trying to love her and adjust with her. She misbehaved with servants, parents and everyone. She wrote down all the points which she expected from others but could not find many points which she could offer. It opened her eyes that she was expecting them to be her way but she had been bad to everyone. It was an eye opener. She realized few things.
She wanted them to be polite to her but she was rude so they also could not stay positive for a very long time.
She wanted them to gift her on various occasions but she never thought of them.
She was very rude to servants. They were crying but still were trying to serve her. She did not even care for their food properly.
She was very ignorant of her husband, his feelings and desires. She felt that whatever he was doing was his duty but if she would do something that was an obligation.
After such a revelation, she was crying but crying would not help. She decided to make the changes. She accepted that what she was expecting from others, she had to do those things herself.
Her relationship with her family improved, servants stayed and with her husband definitely improved.
We all expect a lot and we want this world to be in certain way. All we have to do is we need to become that first. We want others to smile for us, so we need to smile for self and others. We want others to accept us and compliment us, we need to accept and compliment self and others. We want others to be kind and compassionate for us, we need to become that first. More and more beauty we would keep adding, more and more beauty we would see is increasing in this world.
