Instead of talking big, following the path and all, let’s talk about something from ground which we need everyday. Often I come across a question that how shall I decide what is right and what is wrong? Whom should I goto every time I have to take a decision?
We do not need to ask anyone but self. It’s simple. Whatever is making us peaceful, we shall do it. Without fear, without thoughts of Karma and any other thought.
Recently, a gentleman had to take a business decision and he felt there might be something in the deal which is not right or sounds illegal. There is a huge profit he can fore see. So should he sign up the deal or not. Instead of answering directly, I asked him to ask himself. He sat for a while and thought of different feelings he would get ind different situations. Like how would he feel if he signs the deal and how would he feel if he doesn’t. He got the answer. He said that if he signs the deal, he would always be tensed and if he just moves on in the business, he would be peaceful. Infact he felt that, there should be another opportunity coming in. He got the answer.
One lady discussed that he does not want to live with her in laws as there are constant questions and there is always an interference. But how should she approach it? Ask yourself. Earlier she was planning a situation in mind, where she would prove to her husband that how bad his family was, but after a self analysis of peace, she decided that she would simply go and talk to her husband and explain him that how difficult it is to live together and he needs to support her and take a step. Her genuine intentions helped and in few months they shifted out.
For anything, ask yourself, what would give me peace and you would know what you have to do next.
