Often we wonder why do we have the experiences the way we are having right now. We do not realize that we are creating our lives with every moment of our thoughts. Especially if something has emotions attached to it. We all are energy beings, and our energy is managed with our emotions. Lets say thoughts give direction and energy is the fuel. How the things are happening?
1. One gentleman thought that employees always want to suck blood out of his employer. He always had experiences where his employees did not want to work much and were always bargaining for more perks or salary.
2. One lady used to have fears that what if she would have someone who would leave her? Her father had left her mother without saying a word when her mother was expecting her (Before she was born). As soon as she had her first boyfriend in college, after few months he left her. Her initial three relationships were similar but that pattern changed when she saw her friend having a stable relationship.
3. One gentleman always thought that he has to pressurize his team to get work. He never met employees who were self motivated until he changed his though process that people love to work for him.
4. One gentleman thought that people take him for granted and do not value him. His wife and colleagues both took for granted. Once he started valuing himself and started building a thought process that I am always valued, he was valued by everyone.
If you do not appreciate any part of your life, then ask yourself, what inside me is creating that. Whatever question you will ask, you will get the answer. Then ask yourself, how can I resolve it. Then ask yourself, what it is trying to teach me. More you ask, more you will get the answers.
Make an effort to know instead of complaining.
