One girl was always told that she did not look good. She had a dark complexion and every one told her that she would always have to compromise in her life. She actually did not have to, she got married to a very handsome guy who was really doing financially well. However, this criticism still haunted her. In her married life also she heard such comments plus, her husband should have got someone better. She felt that he did not love her. But the reality was different and he dearly loved her. More he tried loving her, more she fought with him thinking he also did not love her as everyone says so.
After reaching to a point, they took a professional help and she realized that it was not him, it was her. She was always criticizing herself, she never loved herself and because of this she could never give love to her husband or to anyone else. Because she never loved herself, she felt that no one else loved her too. She learned to love herself, appreciate herself, accept herself. Self love opened her to a new flow of love. She was always full of love. She realized that she was a beautiful person. people who had told her she did not look good had own parameters. But in reality she was a beautiful person if she would see.
More and more her perception was changing, more and more she was opening to love. She could give love now. She received love also. All this happened after self love.
Tell yourself:
I love, I am love, I am loved.
