So many people come to me during their personal counselling sessions and complain about lots of things which they do not want in life, however, they are unable to extricate them. They ask me, when would it end and I have just one answer, it ends, when you end it. People are funny, when they don’t have any problem, they invite them, they start knitting so much inside this small head that they start having problems. Why cannot we accept we do not have problems. Problems are a state of mind, how we perceive situation, it becomes a problem. This is life and things happen. Everyone goes thorough difficult and easy times. Its a blend of both If you take difficult situation as a challenge and as an opportunity to grow and do better, it would never become a problem. In the time of wars only heroes are born. In the time of difficult situation only people get innovative and come up with new ideas. If things keep going smoothly, they would just live a relaxed life. So change your outlook, take actions, just thinking and being remorse full does not help anywhere. Everything happens because of some action, you have taken in past. Past cannot be undone, so you need to change the things in present. If something can be removed, do it now, if you need to start things again, do it now. Your miseries end, when you end them.
