I could not do this because of so and so reason..my father in my child hood did not let me take my decisions…My wife does not like this…I have so many responsibilities…whom are you giving these excuses…..yes they are excuses…when you want to do something really..you cannot be stopped by anyone and you are not giving these excuses to anyone else, you are just telling to yourself that because of so and so you are unable to do what you want to do. You are trying to build a justification and when you need to build a justification it means things are not right.
When you know you are right, you do not give justification and you do not accept anyone barriers, you just do it. Always remember one thing in life whenever you are trying to build a justification for any action or any inaction, it means you are going against your conscience and you need to evaluate the things so that you do not repent later.
Do not blame anyone for what you did or what you could not do…you are responsible for every action in your life, when you start taking self responsibility, you will be able to understand the self better and would be able to progress in your journey toward success and self.