Since the time we are born we are conditioned by our parents…if you do this then you get this..then you are a good boy or you are a bad boy..result..we learn to live on conditions..we learn to accept ourselves on conditions..when we grow up..we tend to put those conditions…now they are self imposed and result is we are unable to learn ourselves..we keep finding fault with in us..this training becomes so prevalent that we imply it on others too..what we lack inside we think even others lack same and we imply that on others..ultimately we are unable to love anyone else also unconditionally..we love others also as per on gauge which is designed based on conditions.
That is so wrong..you need to love yourself unconditionally …once your heart is filled with love then only you can love others or else you will be on a fault finding spree…do not forget you cannot give to others what you do not have..you can give only what you have..however, if you do not have it inside..how can you give?
So learn to love yourself and do not put conditions on self or on others or else you will be judgemental and who knows if your judgement isn’t so true because it is based on just limited experience of your life not the whole world…..
Stop judging yourself and others..love yourself unconditionally to love others too..
