So many times when I ask the people to accept the situation so that they can be happy..they say its compromising only and you yourself say that you should never live a compromised life isn’t that a contradiction? The difference between accepting and compromising is same as the difference between a date and meeting a friend. We all have risen above gender prejudice and we meet friends of both genders. If a boy meets a girl as a friend its a simple meeting or may be you are just spending good time in the company of friends and if he meets his girlfriend for dinner..its a date…when you meet a friend normally..you cannot call it a date…date is suppose to be more romantic…it is about how you feel for that person and on which pedestal do you stand?
Similarly, when you accept something you are happy as you have control over how you react to the situation not the situation itself..when you compromise…you feel stuck..you feel you are forced upon something…and that makes you feel unhappy..resentful…complaining…and you fill up yourself with negative energy. I met an old man who was being sent to old age home…while he was happily walking toward his room and said I am liking it here..I like the room..I like people over here…I asked him but you have not seen the room..he replied..if I decide that i will like it here then only I will like..if I decide that why was I being sent here…I hate my son for sending me here..then I would not like anything here..the people and the place..this is the difference..when you decide to accept, you accept everything and stay happy..when you feel you are stuck..you feel you are compromising..you will feel unhappy..
