Since the time we are born we are conditioned to act as per others expectations. We are told, we should behave like this or behave like that..and in all this they forget to tell us that the most important person in our life is self…which should be the center of focus..which should be the position of gravity..result is..we cannot forget self..but we feel we should have so and so priority and in this great obstinate word should we keep fighting a war which suffocates us, stresses us and is the reason behind many evils as it causes all the suppression. When the person grows up, he grows up with the bigger war and all the time depends on others for their approval…and when you seek approval..you forget what actually you are..you forget to express yourself..infact you start becoming someone else as you cannot have everyone’s approval in life…
You suffocate yourself and you start piling up complains from ownself only. So many times, I have seen people shouting at others after the situation is over, on whom are you taking out your anger? Well the answer is clear..ownself only…they keep brooding over the small things…for life time filling up inside all the negativity thinking that in so and so situation they should have reacted as per self instead of thinking about others…This negativity further harms you
Do not worry about future..do not worry about consequences..do not worry about what others would think…you cannot please everyone in life…just follow your heart and be yourself…once you are happy and full of love..you would Be able to spread much desired happiness and love…because if you are unable to fill your inside with love, you cannot spread it outside also..because it would be filled with negativity… just be yourself..be a free soul and be happy…life would be a much desired journey.