Blame game…excuses…not accepting the responsibility…all these things don’t sound good when you hear them but are a part of our lives..we are so much conditioned since childhood especially in India to live under the shadow of our parents till they die that we are unable to accept the responsibility of our lives and action…and parents also expect their kids only to follow the orders till they are there and resultantly lot many live a frustrated life..the biggest one comes when when the marriage doesn’t work and it had been an arrange marriage..the son blames on family easily..you chose it…and if its a love marriage…the family easily passes on the comment..you chose it..now face it..come on…question# 1 even in case of arrange marriage..who is the one who married and didn’t say no…if you hadn’t liked the girl…and who has been living with that girl..now in second case…when family blames the boy..that girl has been living with you also and it can happen to anyone..what if the bone of contention if because of the family?
Well…you can keep raking up as many as layers you want..it would never help..why cant every part accept the responsibility and take action? Finding the reasons to blame someone will just satisfy your ego but the situation would remain same….I don’t know what is more important..finding the solution or finding an excuse to blame it on someone else…
Giving excuse is not finding the reason….you do not find reason for someone else…you just give justifications for yourself and live on that false ground… What ever justification you give..does not matter..deep down you know it what is the truth and you can never run away from that..running away from that is running away from self…so do not give justification or excuses…
