Over the years I have seen we pile up many issues against our loved ones in our heart. These issues are generally against our most loved ones or the people who have done maximum for us. The reason is where there is love, we are vulnerable and we get hurt. We expect where we have love and when those expectations are not met, we get hurt. We have a tendency to accumulate the hurt, we repeat that hurt over and over again and we keep hurting ourselves. So what’s the solution? How can we be happy with all the hurt we have in our heart?
We need to make forgiveness a part of the attitude. A part of design. We need to forgive in every moment and every day. Forgiveness is not weakness. It is an attribute of strong. It takes lots of strength and courage to forgive. You have to overcome your own hurt to forgive. You have to take a decision to have a free mind and heart. You have to be courageous to allow life to happen again, which means pain again. Often another reason is we are scared of getting pain again in life. But we forget that in avoidance of new pain we are nurturing old pain. That is why also it is important to forgive and let go.
Every day something would be happening which would hurt us or would not be as per us. We need to let go of the expectation of everyone as per us or this world as per us. We need to let go of the the feelings which we hurting us. We need to allow the new space inside us. We need to forgive everyday.
Instead of repeating what’s hurting tell yourself everyday I forgive you.
