Once I was conducting a seminar on building Self Confidence and then one person said when we compare ourselves with others, our self confidence goes up as we see ourselves better than others. When I asked him ok, so how would you feel when you find someone better than you? Well the answer is obvious…..Then the next question is how do you like when someone compares you with someone else? You do not like it, then why do you compare yourself with anyone else? Isn’t it self disgracing?
We all are unique individual born with own strengths and weaknesses and can become whatever we desire to be. We all have have a unique identity. When you compare yourself to someone else and try to become someone else, you will leave your own uniquely designated place and then who will be you? You need to find out yourself, become yourself, you do not have to become someone else by comparing yourself with others and you need to become the real You.
People rise in this world as they become who they actually are or become the real ones or else all the people whom we consider big must have been replicas of each others and there would not have been any variety in this world, which is making this world so beautiful adding all the colors to it.
