Wow…India got freedom way back…India is a free country…we are not living in some Arab country that we are not free….we have lots of fundamental rights which are written in Indian Constitution..then who is not free here…its your own soul…which is imprisoned behind society. We have insecurities inside us..when we speak something, we speak as to get everyone’s approval because we feel people do not like to hear the truth…we do not want to wear something because we feel that people may laugh at me or stereotype me…we want to buy something so as to impress someone else…we hide our mistakes so that we are proven flawless and we worry that if someone else would get to know what would he/she think of me? With all such thoughts and many more thoughts, we are imprisoned behind the invisible bars which no one likes to break free because if you breakfree, you need to accept your responsibility, responsibility of what you do and how you live. If someone is imprisoned by law, inside the jail he does not have to worry about food and shelter as everything is taken care of…he has to worry about living once he is out…similarly, we are imprisoned behind the jail of society and hence we do not have to worry about self responsibility.
If you like to live behind the bars, its your choice, however, where are you in this..you become a puppet and your strings are pulled by someone else….why do you need to live with the strings…once I had a client who was afraid that what would her fiance do, if he gets to know about her past affair? I told her, to do same, she first needs to accept her past and not being ashamed of that and then tell it to her fiance which made her worrysome, that what would he think about her…however, that we would see when that situation comes but right now you need to share…it needed her to gather all her courage to do so..however, after that she was liberated and that small thing built such a strong foundation of trust between two. I always say…you shall not be afraid of something which you have not done and never hesitate in accepting what you have done..after that what may come…why do we have to run away from own responsibility …if you cannot handle this then why do you do things which you think will not be acceptable…either you do not do it or if you do it..be ready to accept it…why are you being ashamed of self?
You need courage to be self and express yourself..if you break free…you need to be brave enough to accept self responsibility so that you cannot put blames on someone else like you asked so I did it…you need courage because you will not have approvals from others…only a brave can live a free live..muster yourself and muster your courage to live free.
