This is the first thing generally we do when we meet someone, we try to judge the person, his behavior, everything he/she does and why when we meet, we start judging people even before meeting them, we speculate and build expectations and we rank them on that scale of expectations. Have you ever thought, where did you meet the person, you only met your expectations….you created an image and when you met the person, you were busy searching that image and kept giving marks. Wow…not fair right…do not say that everyone does so, so what wrong have I done because we are not born to be a part of herd, we are born as an individual and our quest is to be that individual and most of the times to be a part of the herd, we tend to loose that individuality.
Why should you not do that, what is the harm in judging, well look it like this, you meet the person and judge, first thing, you will always judge as per your limited knowledge and experience, second thing you will imply just your thoughts on that person based on your own past experiences, a crook thinks everyone else is crook, a fibber thinks everyone lies, a gentleman thinks everyone else is a gentleman too, so you are implying your thoughts and yourself on others, where did you meet the person last but not the least you miss the opportunity of meeting a beautiful person, you meet your judgement not the person, you miss the opportunity to get to know another individual.
Do not judge people, if the situation comes judge the situation and just think over, what would you have done in similar situation, we all tend to act differently, always give a chance to others without judging them, you will be giving a chance to yourself. Get to know others, you will get to know yourself more..just do not keep implying yourself on others, for you whole world would appear like your xerox copy otherwise.
