So many times in life we come to a point where we start asking lots of questions, what am I doing, where am I doing, who has done it for me, why am I doing it for others and so many things like this. These are the moments where we feel why the hell I am fighting so much. You feel like giving up on self and giving up on life. These moments mainly come, when you feel you are unable to achieve what you had decided and you are a failure. However, I keep saying you do not fail when you lose, you fail when you give up. Second thing is which is more important than the first one that you feel such moments because you have stopped believing in self. Because if you believe in self, what may come you know it, you will be able to do it. No one has seen tomorrow, no one can say what would happen. If we start thinking negative, we pull negative, if we go with positivity, we attract positive. So how do we get into this positive mode. The moment we depend on someone else for our goals, we get into negative mode because what someone else does is not in our control, what we can control is only what we do and what we think. When our expectations are not met, we feel threatened from life.
A person of self belief would never be threatened from life. Does not matter at what stage of life you are. because you need to understand one most important thing in life, every one has to fight own battle and if you think someone else would fight then you will never get what you wanted because they can never understand what exactly do you want, does not matter how close they are. If someone else is fighting your battle, they will quit somewhere as they have own battle to fight. Life always gives you what you want if you ask for it, fight for it and go for it. If you stop fighting and stop believing in self, you will never have it. If you keep fighting for it and you believe in self that you would have it as you have put in most sincere fight, there is no reason that you would not have what you would have wanted. Infact, you would get in exact way the way you have always wanted. Always believe in self and stop giving excuses, life moves with efforts not excuses.
